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Inkqubo ye- Imithetho Yekhaya zezo zilawula ukusebenza kwabantu kuluntu oluququzelelweyo, ukuze abantu babelane ngendawo enye ngendlela evisisanayo, eyakhayo nelawulwayo.
Ziyaziwa ngokuba Imigaqo yokuhlalisana Ukusukela oko bezisiqinisekiso sokuba abantu banokuqondana kwaye balawulwe yikhowudi yokuziphatha engaphezulu okanye engaphantsi.
Oku akuthethi ukuba imigaqo yokuhlalisana ayinakwaphulwa kuluntu olunye okanye ukuyaphula kukhokelela kwisiphithiphithi kwezentlalo; Nangona kunjalo, okuya kuncipha umntu okanye uluntu lubambelela kwiipateni ezithile zokuziphatha okuxhaphakileyo, kokukhona ukungalindeleki kokungqubana kwabo kunye nokuhlala bekhona ukubambana nokungonwabi phambi komnye. Kwaye konke oku, xa kunikezwe indibaniselwano elungileyo, kunokubangela ubundlobongela, indelelo komnye umntu nokuba kukwahlukana okanye ukuphazamiseka ekuhlaleni.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, iqhalo lithi "akukho mntu uyisiqithi", oko kuthetha ukuba Ukuxhamla kubomi ekuhlaleni, kufuneka sivumelane nomgangatho othile oqhelekileyo.
Oku akuthethi ukuba le migaqo ibekwe elityeni: enyanisweni bayatshintsha ngokuhamba kwexesha kwaye bathobele utshintsho kunye neemeko zokuphila ezintsha zoluntu ezibhengezayo.
Iindidi zemithetho yokuhlalisana
Singathetha ngeendlela ezintathu zokuhlalisana, ngokwemo yemigaqo-sikhokelo:
- Imigangatho yesiqhelo. Le yimigaqo yelifa, eyalelwa ngengqondo eqhelekileyo kunye nengqungquthela (yiyo loo nto igama labo) kwaye zihlala zitshintsha phakathi koluntu kunye neenkcubeko ezahlukeneyo. Imibuliso, ilokhwe, isikhumbuzo semicimbi ekhethekileyo, ucwangco ngokwesini kunye namasiko, zezinye zeendawo apho kubekwa khona le migaqo. Ukwaphula kuhlala kuthathwa njengokrwada okanye ukungabi nantlonelo, kuxhomekeke kumcimbi okhoyo.
- Imilinganiselo yokuziphatha. Imilinganiselo yokuziphatha inento yokwenza nombono othile wokulungileyo nokubi, imigaqo yokuziphatha kunye nokuziphatha okuvunyiweyo ekuhlaleni nxamnye nokugwetywa. Ke ngoko, isimilo sokuziphatha esinikiweyo sinokunyhashwa kuphela ngendleko zentlalo kwindawo ethile, ngelixa kwezinye inokuba yinto yonke imihla kwaye ingabalulekanga.
- Imigaqo yezomthetho. Imigaqo yezomthetho, ngokungafaniyo neminye, icacisiwe kwikhowudi ebhaliweyo ( imithetho) kwaye banyanzelekile: bayakonwabela ukukhuselwa ziiarhente zikarhulumente ezinoxanduva lokuqinisekisa ukuthotyelwa. Ngokubanzi, le yimimiselo ekhusela intlalontle yamalungelo oluntu okanye abanye abantu kwaye, ke, ilawula indlela yokuziphatha eyamkelekileyo neyohlwaywayo kuzo zonke iintlobo zemicimbi yezentlalo. Ukophula umthetho kuthathwa njengolwaphulo-mthetho kwaye kuthwala izohlwayo ezingqongqo ngokohlobo lolwaphulo-mthetho olwenziweyo.
Ezi ntlobo zintathu zesiqhelo banokungqubana omnye nomnye kwaye banokukhetha ngaphandle. Umntu unokukhetha ukuba zeziphi na iindibano ekufuneka azithobele, athobele imigaqo ethile yokuziphatha ekhethiweyo, kodwa angabinakho ukungathobeli ngokwemithetho yoluntu oluthile.
Kwiimeko ezingaginyisi mathe kwimikhwa yesiqhelo neyokuziphatha, ukuphendula kwabahlali kunye nokuchasana noluntu kunokuba sisigwebo esinyanzeliswa luluntu ngokwalo kulowo owaphula umthetho, okanye ukungafuni ukuthanda abantu. Endaweni yoko, imigaqo yezomthetho ithetha isohlwayo esisesikweni ngakumbi nesingumzekelo, esenziwa yimikhosi yoluntu elawula oko.
Imizekelo yemithetho yokuhlalisana
- Gubungela iindawo ezinobungozi. Lo mkhwa wokuziphatha usebenza kwimizimba yamadoda neyabafazi, kodwa kuluntu lwethu loosolusapho ludla ngokuba nolunya ngakumbi kuye. Umgaqo ubeka ukuba iinxalenye zithathwa njengezithobekileyo (ngakumbi amalungu esini kunye nempundu, kodwa namabele amabhinqa) kufuneka zigcinwe zigutyungelwe ngalo lonke ixesha ngaphandle kobuhlobo.
- Ukukhuselwa kwababuthathaka. Omnye wemigaqo esisiseko yobomi eluntwini, umisela ukuba abomeleleyo kufuneka bayeke ukuthatha ithuba lababuthathaka kwaye uluntu kufuneka lukhusele olokugqibela. Ngumgaqo wemfesane wokuziphatha kakuhle ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba elithile elisemthethweni, kuba uRhulumente enjalo esebenza ukuqinisekisa, ngokwenkolelo, ukuba amalungelo ababuthathaka awaphulwa engohlwaywa ngabo banamandla.
- Ukwahlula into yelinye ilizwe kunye neyakho. Omnye umthetho osisiseko wobomi obuphucukileyo, ocacisa umgama phakathi kwento umntu anayo kunye nezinto anazo abanye abantu. Lo mgama awunakoyiswa ngaphandle kweentengiselwano ezithile nezilawulwa ngokubanzi, ezinje ngokuthenga, isipho okanye isabelo, kwaye ukwaphula umthetho kuhlala kuthathwa njengolwaphulo-mthetho: ubusela okanye ukuphanga.
- Uxanduva lokubulisana. Umbuliso uyinxalenye yemiyalelo yomgaqo wobuntu jikelele, kwaye uyayibamba umntu kufuneka anikezele kwabo bahlangana okokuqala ngqa ngemini isenzo sokubonisa: umbuliso. Akubonwa kakuhle ukuba umntu unxibelelana nabanye ngaphandle kokusebenzisa ezi fomyula zimbeko, kwaye ukusilela ekuthobeleni kuzo kunokwenza umahluko kunyango olufunyenweyo. Akubonwa kakuhle ukuba ungaphenduli kumbuliso womnye kwaye ihlala ithathwa njengengxelo yendelelo okanye ubutshaba.
- Ukulingwa kobufanasini. Nangona ikhuselwe yimithetho yezomthetho yamazwe amaninzi, imicimbi yothando nabantu besini esifanayo iseyinto engafunwayo kwaye ithathwa njengokuziphatha okubi okanye iyinto ecekisekayo luluntu. Lo ngumzekelo ogqibeleleyo wokungangqinelani phakathi kwezixhobo ezisemthethweni kunye nombono wokuziphatha kwabahlali..
- Imilinganiselo yetafile. Zininzi iindlela zokuziphatha ezichaza indlela efanelekileyo yokuziphatha kwitafile, ngokomxholo wentlalo nenkcubeko. Ke, isidlo sangokuhlwa esisemthethweni siya kunyanzelisa isimilo esingqongqo ngakumbi, ngelixa usapho luvumela ngakumbi. Oku kunokuhamba ngendlela yokubamba izixhobo, ukuya kwimigaqo esisiseko njengokuhlafuna uvale umlomo.
- Intlonelo ngobomi. Uninzi lweekhowudi zomthetho zoluntu zigcinelwe uRhulumente, kweyona meko intle, kulawulo lobomi nokufa kuluntu. Ukubulala ngokungenanceba lolona lwaphulo-mthetho luhlwaywe kakhulu kuzo zonke iinkqubo zomthetho, kuba oko kwaphula umthetho-siseko obalulekileyo eluntwini, othi ubuxabise ubomi babanye njengobakho. Ngokucacileyo, oku akwenzeki kulo lonke uluntu, kwaye kuhlala kubulawa ngenxa yezopolitiko, ezentlalo, ezoqoqosho kunye nezizathu zothando. Nangona kunjalo, ubume bezomthetho kuluntu ngalunye lukwajonga isohlwayo ekufuneka sisetyenziswe kunye nendlela ekuthiwa ulwaphulo-mthetho kufuneka bohlwaywe ngayo.
- Fihla ukwabelana ngesondo. Ngelixa iindawo zethu zoluntu zibonakala ngathi zijolise kakhulu kwezesondo, enye yezona migaqo zixhaphakileyo zokuziphatha ijonge ukufihlwa kwesondo, ekufuneka yenzeke kolona lwalamano lungqongqo kwesi sibini.. Oku kuyinyani kuchazwe njengesiqhelo "sokuziphatha koluntu" kwiikhowudi ezininzi zomthetho.
- Yenza kwaye uhloniphe umgca. Ngaphandle kokuba asinako konke ukufumana iinkonzo kunye neempahla esizifunayo ngaxeshanye, isidingo somqolo, umgca okanye umqolo umiselwe, oko kukuthi, ukulinda emva komnye ixesha lethu lokufikaNokuba kukhathalelwe evenkileni, ukukhwela ibhasi, okanye ukuya ekonsathini.
- Ubude beenwele. Umgaqo oqhelekileyo uyalela, kumazwe amaninzi, ukuba amadoda afanele anxibe iinwele ezimfutshane kunye nabasetyhini iinwele ezinde. Lo mthetho uzuzwe njengelifa ukusuka kumaxesha angqingqwa ngokuziphatha, wenziwe waguquguquka ngakumbi amaxesha ngamaxesha yiyo loo nto namhlanje kunokwenzeka ukuba unxibe iinwele ngendlela othanda ngayo, nangona kuya kufuneka ujongane nendlela abasabela ngayo abo babangela loo nto ngakumbi Abalondolozi kunathi.
Ingakukhonza:
- Imizekelo yezeNtlalo
- Imizekelo yezeNtlalontle, zokuziphatha, ezomthetho nezenkolo
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