Umxholo
Inkqubo ye- ukuthozama Kukuziphatha okuhle umntu anokukwenza ngako yazi kwaye wamkele iintsilelo zakho kunye nobuthathaka, ukuvumela abanye ukuba benze ngendlela abacinga ngayo, ngaphandle kwesi sizathu ukuba mbi kunendlela ebeya kujongana nayo ngokwahlukeneyo.
Umntu othobekileyo ezazi iintsilelo zakhe kunye nobuthathaka, kwaye enze ngokufanelekileyo: akanazo izakhiwo zokuphakama, kwaye akukho mfuneko yokuba akhumbuze abanye ngempumelelo yakhe kunye nempumelelo.
A umntu othobekileyo Unguye, phantse wonke umntu onxibelelana naye, umntu olungileyo. Oku kuthetha ukuba imeko inokuwela kwisangqa apho umntu othobekileyo enconywa ngakumbi, kwaye ukuba indumiso isebenza ngokuzithoba iya kudunyiswa ngakumbi.
Ingakukhonza:
- Imizekelo yamaxabiso
- Imizekelo yeeNgxabano
- Imizekelo yokunyaniseka
Ngokubanzi, ukuthobeka kuchazwa njenge inkcaso yekratshi okanye ikratshiUkuthobeka, ke, sisidima esibonakala ngexesha lokuphakama okanye xa kufezekisiwe into apho umntu anokutshintsha isimo sabo sengqondo okanye aqhubeke naleyo babenayo ngaphambili.
Yiyo loo nto kungaphosisi ukuthi phakathi kwazo zonke izinto ezilungileyo, ukuthobeka yenye yezinto ekunzima ukuyifumana ngomlomo, kwaye kufuneka ifundwe ngokuhamba kwexesha, kanye xa ufika loo mzuzu wokuchuma.
Omnye wemithombo ephambili yokuthobeka yile inkolo, kuba ubukhulu nobungcwele bukaThixo kuloo ndawo abufumaneki ebantwini. Ibhayibhile yamaKristu inyanzelisa kwizihlandlo ezininzi ngokubhekisele ekuthobekeni, kwaye ubume bukaYesu Krestu khona kubalulekile ukuba bayiqonde.
Kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo oko ukungabikho nje kwekratshi akuyiyo intobeko, Kwaye kukho iimeko ezininzi apho, ngenjongo yokuthobeka, uphela uzenzakalisa wena okanye abanye. Umntu ongenakho ukwabelana nabanye ngempumelelo yakhe, ngenxa yokuba kunokwenzeka ukuba yenzakalise ikratshi labo bangayiphumelelanga, akathobekanga kwaye kufuneka ajonge ubuhlobo babo.
Kwenzeka into efanayo kwabo baziva benetyala malunga nempumelelo abanayo, okanye abayixabisi iinzame ekufuneka bezenzile ukuze bafezekise. Entle ukusebenzisa intobeko Akazinciphisi ekuziqapheleni iinzame zakhe, okanye ekwabelaneni nolonwabo lwakhe: uziva nje ezixabisa kanye njengokuba enako ukubaxabisa abanye.
Bona kwakho: Imizekelo yeempawu ezintle kunye neziphene
Imizekelo yeendlela zokuziphatha ezithobekileyo
Nayi eminye imizekelo yokuziphatha ethi yamkelwe njengezenzo zokuthobeka:
- Buza abanye uluvo lwabo kwimicimbi eyahlukeneyo.
- Bancome abo banesakhono kwisifundo esithile, kwaye ucele uncedo xa kukho imfuneko yoko.
- Sukuhlala mpumelelo.
- Ukuphulukana noloyiko lokwenza iimpazamo.
- Qaphela abantu abakuncedileyo uphuhlise izakhono.
- Yivume xa kukho into ongayiqondiyo.
- Ziqonde iimpazamo zakho.
- Musa ukuzithelekisa nabanye ngokungafunekiyo, ucinga ukuba wonke umntu wahlukile.
- Nika ityala kubabhali bokwenyani bengcinga.
- Vuma ukuba akulunganga.
- Ukwazi ukuba ungaphulukana njani, kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo zobomi.
- Sukuthathela ingqalelo imeko nganye njengelinye lamandla, apho elona gunya lomeleleyo lizibophelela kwabona babuthathaka: ukuthobela isigwebo sabanye kuhlala kulungele wonke umntu.
- Ziqonde izono zakho.
- Uziva kakubi xa unetyala elingelolakho.
- Qaphela ukuba kusoloko kukho okungakumbi onokukufunda.
- Yabelana ngolwazi olufundileyo.
- Xa uphumelele, zibeke kwindawo owawukuyo ngaphambi kokuba wenze oko.
- Yibulela impumelelo, ngaphandle kokuqhayisa.
- Yabelana ngesisa, xa sinikiwe, kunye nabo babelana ngetyala.
- Kulungele ukumamela abanye kwiincoko, ngaphandle kokuba ikhethe kumnikezeli wombono.
Unokukukhonza
- Imizekelo yamaxabiso
- Imizekelo yexabiso lenkcubeko
- Imizekelo yovelwano
- Imizekelo yokunyaniseka
- Imizekelo yeeNgxabano
