Imizekelo yokuxhatshazwa

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Imizekelo yokuxhatshazwa
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Inkqubo ye- ukuxhatshazwa okanye ukuxhaphaza luhlobo lokuxhaphaza phakathi kwabafundi ofunda nabo. Luhlobo lwe ubundlobongela kunye nokuphathwa gadalala ngabom ukusuka komnye okanye komnye umfundi ukuya komnye.

Nangona bonke abantwana kunye nabantu abancinci benokulwa ngamanye amaxesha njengenxalenye yokuhlala kunye njengesiqhelo, ukuxhatshazwa kubonakaliswa ngokuba uxhatshazo oluzinzileyo ngokuhamba kwexesha kumntu omnye. Inokuqhubeka iiveki, iinyanga, okanye iminyaka. Le ndlela yokuziphatha ayiqhelekanga kwaye ayilunganga ukukhula.

Into yokuba umntwana okanye umntwana ofikisayo axhaphaze umntu afunda naye ayithethi ukuba banayo ukuzithemba okuphezulu endaweni yoko, uyazi nje umahluko wamandla phakathi kwakhe neqabane elihlukumezekileyo.

Lo mahluko kumandla ayinyani. Akuyonyani ukuba abantwana bayaxhatshazwa ngenxa yokuba betyebile, okanye ngenxa yokuba bengabohlanga olwahlukileyo. Esona sizathu kukuba abantwana bazibone bebuthathaka. Olu luvo ngokwabo lukhuthazwa ziimodeli zentlalo ezithanda iimpawu ezithile zomzimba kunabanye, kodwa azimiselwanga kwangaphambili.

Iimeko zokuhlukumeza azimiselwanga yinto enye kodwa izizathu ezininzi. Uluvo lokwahluka kwamandla phakathi komhlukumezi nalowo uxhatshazwayo yeyona nto ibalulekileyo, kodwa ayisiyiyo kuphela. Izixhobo zokusebenza kwengqondo kwabo babandakanyekayo, ukukwazi uvelwano, Ukuphendula kweqela kunye nokuma kwabantu abadala kuyichaphazela kakhulu le ndlela inamandla.

Ukuxhatshazwa kunokuba:

Ngokwasemzimbeni: Ayisiyonto iqhelekileyo kuba kunokwenzeka ukuba ibe neziphumo ezibi kumhlaseli.
Ngomlomo: Yeyona ixhaphakileyo okoko iziphumo zayo zihlala zincitshiswa ngumhlaseli nakubantu abadala.
Isini: Zezindlela zobundlongondlongo ezenziwa ngaphandle kokuchukumisa enye.
Izinto eziphathekayo: Kuqhele ukwenziwa xa kungekho amangqina, kuba ivumela izinto zexhoba ukuba zitshatyalaliswe ngaphandle kwemiphumo kubahlaseli.
InyanisoYindlela ehlaselayo yokuhlukumeza ngamazwi, kuba ayivumeli ixhoba ukuba libaleke kumhlaseli.
NgesondoZonke iintlobo zeSexual Harassment zikhankanyiwe.

Ukonakalisa izixhobo zokuFunda zikaBuddy: Ukuphosa isiselo kwincwadi yomhlobo kunokuba yinto yokuhlekisa ukuba ungumhlobo wakho osenyongweni, kwaye uya kwenza okufanayo kwincwadi yakho. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba liqabane ongenalo elo themba kwaye ocinga ukuba akazukuzikhusela, luhlobo lokuxhatshazwa (ukonakala kwezinto). Ukuba nazo ezi ziganeko ziphindaphindwayo, kukuxhaphaza.
Ukwenza izimbo zomzimba ezingamanyala kubalingane ofunda nabo akufanelekanga nakweyiphi na imeko yemfundo. Awunakukwazi ngokuqinisekileyo xa uqala ukwenza omnye umntu angonwabi. Izimbo zomzimba ezingamanyala eziphindaphindwayo zinokuqwalaselwa njengeSexual Harassment.
Sonke siye sathuka kwaye sathukwa ngamanye amaxesha, ngaphandle kokusenzakalisa. Nangona kunjalo, ukuthukwa okuphindaphindiweyo kumntu ofanayo kubangela ukonakala kwengqondo kwaye luhlobo lobundlobongela ngamazwi.
Amagama omnxeba-Amagama asemagqabini anokubonakala njengendlela emsulwa yokubhekisa emntwini. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba iziteketiso zenziwe ngenjongo yokuhlazisa umntu kwaye zikhatshwa zezinye izithuko okanye uhlobo oluthile lokuxhatshazwa, ziyinxalenye yemeko yokuxhatshazwa.
Ukonakalisa idesika yomfundi ofunda naye ayonakalisi kuphela ipropathi yesikolo, kodwa kukwahlasela indawo yakhe yemihla ngemihla, kumnyanzela ukuba abone iziphumo zesenzo sobundlobongela.
Ubundlongondlongo bemihla ngemihla: xa umntwana okanye umntwana ofikisayo ehlasela omnye ngokuphindaphindiweyo, luhlobo lokuxhaphaza, nokuba ngaba abahlaseli abashiyi amanqaku abonakalayo, oko kukuthi, ukuba ngaba bangabangenabundlobongela njengezihlangu okanye izithonga ezincinci. Iziphumo ezingalunganga zezi zibetho ziveliswa kukuphindwaphindwa, okuyindlela yokulihlaza iqabane.
Akukho mntu kufuneka athumele omnye umntu iifoto ezingcolileyo kwimidiya yoluntu okanye kwiiselfowuni ukuba umamkeli akakhange azicele ngokucacileyo ezo foto. Ukuthumela izinto ezinjalo ungakhange uzicele, luhlobo lweSexual Harassment, nokuba umthumeli yindoda okanye ungumfazi.
Ukuphindaphinda ukuthuka umntu osebenza naye kwimidiya yoluntu yindlela yokuxhaphaza nge-intanethi, nokuba la magqabaza akathunyelwa ngqo kulowo uhlaselwayo.
Ukuphinda-phinda ukuhlekisa ngobunzima bomnye ekufundeni okanye ekwenzeni imisebenzi ethile luhlobo lokungcungcuthekiswa ngomlomo.
Ukubetha: yeyona ndlela icacileyo yokuxhaphaza. Ukulwa phakathi kwamaqabane kunokwenzeka ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo. Nangona kunjalo, imalunga nokuxhaphaza xa iimeko zobundlobongela ziphindaphindwa, okanye xa abahlaseli bebaninzi kwaye ixhoba linye.
Xa iqela liphela lithatha isigqibo sokungahoyi umntu afunda naye, ukungammemeli kwimisebenzi yeqela, ukungathethi naye okanye nokungamniki ulwazi olubalulekileyo kwimisebenzi yesikolo, luhlobo lokuphathwa gadalala. yokuxhatshazwa.
Ubusela: nabani na unokuba lixhoba lokuphangwa kwimeko yesikolo. Ukuxhaphaza kuthathelwa ingqalelo xa ukuphanga kusoloko kuphindaphindwa kulowo mntu mnye, ngenjongo yokonakalisa kunokuba kuxhamle kwizinto ezifunyenweyo.