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Xa sithetha ngayo amanqanaba okukhula komntu, sithetha okwahlukileyo izigaba umntu ahamba kuzo ukusuka ekukhulelweni ukuya ekufeni, kwaye ngexesha athi atshintshe kuzo zonke iintlobo, emzimbeni nasengqondweni yakhe.
La manqanaba azalisekiswa ngokupheleleyo kubo bonke abantu beentlobo zabantu, ngaphandle kokukhetha, Nangona iimpawu ezithile zingahluka ngokwemeko ethile. Ke, umzekelo, kuya kubakho abakwishumi elivisayo abaneengxaki zamabala kunye nabanye ngaphandle kwabo, kodwa akukho mntu uya kuze akwazi ukutsiba ixesha lokufikisa.
Kufuneka kwakhona ukuba Utshintsho oluveliswe kwinqanaba ngalinye, kunye nendlela yokumelana nazo, zithatha isigqibo kwaye zithathe isigqibo kwizinto ezilandelayo.Ke ngoko, ubuntwana kunye nokufikisa, njengamanqanaba okuqala, kubaluleke kakhulu kumgaqo-siseko wokugqibela womntu ngamnye. Ubomi, buqondwe ngolu hlobo, lulandelelwano lweemeko zotshintsho olushiya uphawu lwazo kuthi kude kube lolokugqibela.
Amanqanaba asixhenxe ophuhliso lomntu
Amanqanaba okukhula komntu asixhenxe, kwaye zezi zilandelayo:
1) Inqanaba lokubeleka. Eli linqanaba lokuqala lobomi bomntu, elibizwa ngokuba linqanaba lesibeleko, kuba senzeka ngaphakathi kwisibeleko sikanina ngexa lokukhulelwa. Ke ngoko, eli nqanaba isuka ekuchumiseni (ukudityaniswa kweeseli zesini zabazali) kunye nokukhula komntwana, ukuya ekuzalweni okanye ekuhanjisweni.
Eli nqanaba ngokubanzi lithatha iinyanga ezilithoba kwaye linezigaba ezithathu ezahlukileyo, ezizezi:
- Ijerm okanye isigaba se-zygote. Ngeli xesha lesigaba, iqanda elichunyiswe lidlozi, elaziwa njenge-zygote, liqala ukuphindaphindeka kweseli okukhokelela ekwandeni kobukhulu, ukuthatha ingcambu kwisisu sesibeleko ekupheleni kweveki yesibini yokukhulelwa.
- Isigaba sembungu. Emva koko, i-zygote inokubizwa ngombungu, kwaye ngeli nqanaba eliqala kwiveki yesibini ukuya kweleshumi elinesibini (inyanga yesithathu) yokukhulelwa, ichaphazeleka kakhulu kukungcola kwangaphandle okunje ngotywala, icuba, imitha okanye usulelo Ngeli nqanaba amanqanaba emveku engekazalwa aqala ukuphindaphindeka kwaye agxile, esenza oko kuya kuba zizicubu ezahlukeneyo zomntwana.
- Isigaba somntwana. Nje ukuba kufikelelwe kwesi sigaba, umbungu uba sisibeleko kwaye sele uza kuba nemilo ethile yomntu, nangona izakuqhubeka nokukhula kude kube ziinyanga ezilithoba zokukhulelwa, xa iyakuba lusana ekulungeleyo ukushiya isibeleko sikanina ngokusebenzisa umjelo wokuzalwa.
2) Inqanaba lobuntwana. Isigaba sesibini ebomini bawo wonke umntu, kodwa ngaphandle kokuqala kokuqulatha kunye nokukhuselwa komzimba kamama, bubuntwana. Ihamba ukusuka kumzuzu wokuhanjiswa kude kube kwiminyaka emithandathu ubudala, xa ubuntwana buqala njalo.
Ekuqaleni kweli nqanaba umntu ubizwa usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa, unentloko engalinganiyo emzimbeni wakhe kwaye ulala ixesha elininzi. Ukwamkelwa kweemoto kunye namandla emizwa kukuqala nje, kungoko ke kubonisa ukungahambelani kunye nokuzenzekelayo, njengokuncanca ibele likanina, kwaye kukwathetha nabangaphandle ngeempendulo ezingakhethiyo zeemvakalelo (ukukhala).
Njengoko ixesha lihamba, nangona kunjalo, usana lufunda ukulawula amalungu alo omzimba, izihlunu zakhe, kunye nokuhamba, kunye nolunye ulwimi olusisiseko.
3) Inqanaba lobuntwana. Ifumaneka phakathi kwe-6 kunye ne-12 yeminyaka ubudala, Eli nqanaba lesithathu lokukhula komntu lihambelana nokufunda komntu, oko kukuthi, ukukwazi kwabo ukufunda kunye nokuhlala nabanye abantu abakubudala babo.. Esikolweni umntwana ufunda ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zokudlala kunye nokufundisa ukusebenzisa amandla abo engqondo, omzimba kunye nawentlalo.
Kweli nqanaba, kusekwe imvakalelo yokuzibophelela, ukuzithanda, ukuhlonipha abanye kunye nabanye, kunye nokukwazi ukwahlula phakathi kwenyani kunye nengcinga. Linqanaba eliphambili ekwenziweni kwengqondo yomntuKe ngoko, umntwana uzama ukukhusela kangangoko kunokwenzeka kwiimpembelelo zoluntu.
4) Inqanaba lokufikisa. Eli nqanaba lesine lobomi bomntu liqala ekupheleni kobuntwana, malunga neminyaka eli-12, kwaye liphela ngokungena kulutsha, malunga neminyaka engama-20. Akukho mida ichanekileyo yoku, njengoko iyahluka ngokwamntu: kodwa ukungena ebusheni kuthathwa njengesiqalo esicacileyo sobutshaOko kukuthi, ukukhula ngokwesini komntu ngamnye.
Ngesi sizathu, ixesha lokufikisa lelinye lamanqanaba abantu abonisa olona tshintsho lubalulekileyo lomzimba kunye neemvakalelo. Ukukhula ngokwesondo kubonakala ngokutshintsha komzimba:
- Inkangeleko yeenwele zomzimba (ebusweni emadodeni) ngakumbi iinwele ze-pubic.
- Umahluko womzimba phakathi kwamantombazana namakhwenkwe.
- Ilizwi elijiyileyo emadodeni.
- Ukubonakala kweempawu zesondo zesibini njengokukhula kwebele, okanye ukwandiswa kwepenisi.
- Ukukhula okukhawulezileyo kubude kunye nobunzima.
- Ukuqala kokuya exesheni kwabasetyhini.
Kunye notshintsho kwezentlalo kunye neemvakalelo:
- Ukuhla rhoqo kweemvakalelo.
- Ukubonakala komnqweno wesini.
- Utyekelo lokutshintsha indawo yosapho kunye neyabahlobo, amaqela eqela, iibhendi, njl.
- Utyekelo lokuba wedwa kunye neentloni kude nenyani.
- Ukuba semngciphekweni ngokweemvakalelo kunye nemfuno yesazisi esitsha.
Eli nqanaba lelona libalulekileyo kwinkqubo yokufumanisa ubuqu kunye nehlabathi elijikelezileyo, kunye nobomi bemvakalelo kunye neenqobo eziya kuthi emva koko zikhokelele umntu lowo ebudaleni.
5) Inqanaba lolutsha. Ulutsha lubizwa inqanaba lokuqala lokuba mdala okanye ukuba mdala, apho umntu sele sele ekhulile ngokwesondo kwaye oyisile ubundlobongela bokufikisa, ekulungele ukuqala ubomi obunoxanduva kuye. Ulutsha ngokubanzi luthathwa njengoluphakathi kweminyaka engama-20 nengama-25 ubudala, nangona ezi paramitha zingalungiswanga..
Ngexesha lolutsha, umntu uyazazi ngakumbi ukuba ungubani kwaye uzimisele ngakumbi kwinto ayifunayo ebomini, nokuba abanalo uzinzo ngokweemvakalelo oluqhelekileyo lokuqola. Linqanaba lokufunda ngokubanzi, elingasaphazanyiswa kukukhula kwamandla, apho Umsebenzi kunye nobomi bentlalo zihlala zihlala kwindawo enelungelo.
6) Inqanaba lokuba mdala. Elona nqanaba liqhelekileyo kuphuhliso lomntu, Iqala emva kweminyaka engama-25 ubudala, ngokuphela kobutsha kwaye ihlale ide ingene ebudaleni okanye ebudaleni, malunga neminyaka engama-60. Umntu omdala uthathelwa ingqalelo ekukuzalisekeni kwengqondo yakhe, ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwasemzimbeni, ukuze kweli nqanaba umnqweno wokuba ngutata kunye nokufumana usapho kuhlala kwenzeka.
Okona kusebenza kubalulekileyo kuqulethwe kweli nqanaba, nangona, nangona iqulethe konke okubhaliweyo kumanqanaba okwakheka, ikwalilo nqanaba apho umntu ethanda ukwenza uxolo ngakumbi nangaphantsi kunye naye nakwikamva lakhe. Umntu omdala kulindeleke ukuba abe nolawulo lweemvakalelo kunye nesimo esibalulekileyo ebengenaso kumanqanaba angaphambili..
7) Inqanaba lokwaluphala. Inqanaba lokugqibela lobomi bomntu, eliqala malunga neminyaka engama-60 ubudala liqhubeke de kube sekufeni. Abantu abadala kweli nqanaba babizwa ngokuba "ngabantu abadala" kwaye Bahlala bephela kwikhonkco losapho apho badlulisela khona ukufunda kunye neemfundiso zabo ezibalulekileyo.
Eli linqanaba lokwehla kwamandla omzimba nawokuzala, nangona kuqikelelwa ukuba isixa sokukhula ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwasengqondweni kwamanqanaba angaphambili kuya kuba nefuthe kwinqanaba elikhulu okanye elincinci lobuthathaka kubantu abadala. Izigulo, ukugula emzimbeni kunye nokungabi namdla kubomi ngokubanzi (ukhumbula iinkumbulo zangaphambili) luphawu lweli nqanaba lomhlala phantsi.
Ngamanye amaxesha oku kwehla komzimba kungathintela ubomi obuqhelekileyo, ngelixa kwezinye kukhokelela kubuntu bokuzingca, obunobugqwetha kunye nobunqabileyo.
