UMbalisi oPhambili

Umxholo

• Iimpawu zombalisi ophambili
• Imizekelo yombalisi ophambili

Inkqubo ye- umlandeli ophambili Kwenzeka xa umntu obalisa ibali ingoyena mlinganiswa uphambili webali, aze abalise ibali lomntu wokuqala. Njengokuba: Ndiwaphulaphule ngenyameko amazwi akhe; Ndizamile ukuzibamba kangangoko ndinako, kodwa indlela ebexoka ngayo kuthi yonke yandenza andakwazi ukufihla umsindo wam.

• Bona kwakho: Umbalisi wokuqala, owesibini nowesithathu

Iimpawu zombalisi ophambili

• Ungumlinganiswa ekwenzeka kuye iziganeko ezisisiseko.
• Ibalisa ibali ngolwimi lomntu kunye nolwentetho, yiyo loo nto ihlala ibhekisa kuyo, ikhuphe izimvo kwaye ixabise izigwebo.
• Kusenokwenzeka ukuba kwibali lakhe umbalisi ophambili uyaziphikisa kwaye uxele okukulungeleyo.
• Ngokungafaniyo nezinye iindidi zababalisi bamabali, umlinganiswa ophambili unokuxela kuphela oko akwaziyo xa ebalisa ibali, oko akubonileyo okanye oko abanye abalinganiswa bamxelele kona. Akazazi iingcinga, iimvakalelo kunye nembali yabanye abalinganiswa.

Imizekelo yombalisi ophambili

1. Kwakungathi ndihlala edystopia. Ngezo mini, iincwadi ezinje ngo-1984, Fahrenheit 451, nditsho neHlabathi elitsha elinenkalipho zafika ezingqondweni ngalo lonke ixesha. Ungayichazanga iTalema yesicakakazi. Ukuya ezitratweni ndiye kuthenga into endiyenzileyo kwandenza ndaziva ngathi ndisisikrelemnqa. Kwaye imikhosi yezokhuseleko yayijongene nokundenza ndizive. Ukuya nakweyiphi na ivenkile okanye intengiso yayiyinto enkulu: imigca emide, indawo ephangiweyo apho yonke into ebalulekileyo yokuphila yayinqongophele. Ekuseni, kwakuthe cwaka kangangokuba ndaqala ukuva izandi endingazange ndizive ngaphambili. Iintaka zaphinda zacula, okanye mhlawumbi bezihlala zinayo, kodwa ingxolo yezithuthi zikawonkewonke yayisibekele yonke le minyaka. Ngamanye amaxesha, ndandiziva ndingento yanto; isifuba sam sincinci kwaye ndifuna ukukhala de ndiqhume. Nangona ndikwafundile ukonwabela izinto ezincinci: iinkwenkwezi, ukutshona kwelanga kwanombethe owawugquma igadi yam kusasa.
2. Indawo leyo yayigcwele ngabantu. Iholo, elalikhangeleka libanzi emini, labonakala lincinci ngokuhlwanje. Kodwa abantu babonakala bengakhathali. Badanisa bonke bahleka. Umculo wenza iindonga zangxola ngelixa izibane zazingancedi ukubuchonga ubuso. Ingathi ndiyatshona. Wayenqwenela ukuba akayanga; Bendirhalela ikhaya lam, amashiti am acocekileyo, ukuthula, nesibane sam somgangatho. Kude kube ngequbuliso ndimbonile, nzulu phaya, kude, ephethe iglasi. Ndaye ndabona ukuba undijongile. Uphakamise isandla sakhe wandibulisa wandikhomba ukuba ndisondele. Ukusukela ngala mzuzu, ingxolo, ukungabikho komoya kunye nobushushu kuyekile ukundikhathaza kwaye nokungabikho kwesibane kwakungaseyongxaki.
3. Ndazingca. Ngethuba lokuqala ebomini bam, ndandinebhongo lokubona ukuba esi sigulana, ekungekho mntu wayenokholo kuye ukufika kwakhe eklinikhi, wonke umntu amthatha njengofileyo, asishiya njani isakhiwo ngeendlela zakhe. Kwaye wayesazi ukuba ukusukela ngala mhla, wayeza kuphila ubomi obuqhelekileyo, obufana nobakhe ngaphambi kokuba eze kule ndawo. Ndikhumbula iimvakalelo zomfazi wakhe, uvuyo abantwana bakhe abamwola ngalo kwaye ndaziva ukuba kufanelekile, ukuba kufanelekile ukulala kancinci nokuzama nzima. Imbuyekezo yenye. Yayikukubona indlela abantu abadlula kule minyango yeglasi baphinde baphila ngayo kwaye mhlawumbi, kobo bomi butsha, sahlala kwindawo encinci.
4. Ndilayite icuba ndalungiselela ukumlinda. Ndiyazi ukuba iza kuza; kodwa bendisazi ukuba uzocengwa, kwaye uzothatha ixesha lakhe ukuya apho, kwaye uzokundenza ndibone ukuba khange akhathazwe nangokuba late. Wayezenza ngathi khange aqaphele. Ndacela i-whiskey ye-waitress kwaye ndalungiselela ukulinda. Ndithe xa ndisela la manzi alubhelu imvelaphi ethandabuzekayo, ndaqala ukukhumbula indlela amphatha ngayo umama, amaxesha angamhoyi. Nazo ezo ntsasa zangoMgqibelo zeza engqondweni, xa ndandinemidlalo yam yebhola ekhatywayo kwaye wayekhona kuphela ukuze andonwabise kwaye ndibhiyozele iinjongo zam. Khange abonakale. Kwaye akazange azame nokuza nesizathu sokuphikisa ukungabikho kwakhe: wayehleli ebhedini kude kube semva kwemini, xa evukayo, wavula ifriji wabamba into yokuqala ayifumeneyo. Wayehlala esofeni abukele iTV ngelixa ehlafuna esenza loo ngxolo imbi ndiyivayo nangoku. Indawo yayiphindwa qho ngeMigqibelo, apho ndandisoloko ndinxibe loo ngubo imdaka, ukuba ngalo lonke ixesha ndiyikhumbula isisu sam siyajika. Ndavula isipaji sam, ndabeka iingqekembe ezimbalwa phezu kwetafile, ndaza ndashiya loo bar inezothe, ndayijongisa ezantsi, ndandinqanda ukungqubana naye xa ndisiya emotweni.
5. Zange khe ndizive ndingakhululekanga ngolu suku, kolo vavanyo, apho italente yayingathi ayinamsebenzi, ibinzana laliyinto encinci kwaye nokwazi ukudlala isixhobo kwakungekho nokudibanisa. Ekuphela kwento ebalulekileyo ekubunjweni yayikukulinganisa, ukubonakala, iimpahla awayezinxibile. Phambi kokuba lithuba lam lokuba ndiye eqongeni, ndemka kuloo ndawo yoyikekayo, ndimbakraza ucango - ekungekho mntu ukhathalayo ngalo - ukuze nje ndiphinde, ndilahle ingqumbo endandihlasele ngalo mzuzu.

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