Ukuqala ukubhekisa ekuphatheni gadalala kunyeudlama lasekhaya, kufuneka siqale sichaze ingqokelela yobundlobongela kuhlobo lwayo olubanzi nolokuqala, kuba iya kuba yiyo esiya kuyisebenzisa njengesalathiso sokuchaza ukwahlulahlula ubundlobongela.
UGONYAMELO: Imalunga ne Ukuziphatha ngabom okudala ukwenzakala komnye umntu emzimbeni nasengqondweni. Imalunga nokunyanzelisa into ngenkani, imalunga nokunyanzela okanye ukufumana into ngenkani, nokuba iyinto okanye ngumntu.
- Ubundlobongela budinga ixhoba kunye nomenzi wobubi. Ngaphandle kobundlobongela obubangelwa, ubundlobongela bunokushiya iziphumo zomntu emntwini apho zenziwe khona, kunye nakwiziphumo zomzimba.
UDLAMA LASEKHAYA: Olu hlobo lobundlobongela lwenzeka ngaphakathi - ngaphakathi - kwesifuba sosapho. Ihlala iyindlela eqhelekileyo yobundlobongela, nangona zimbalwa izehlo ezichazwe ngenxa yoloyiko okanye ihlazo.
- Ziquka iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokusebenzisa olu hlobo lobundlobongela, nokuba umenze umntu wedwa umntu, umoyike, umtyhole, amphike, amoyikise okanye amxhaphaze ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo umntu okanye amalungu osapho.
Phakathi kweendlela ezohlukeneyo ezinokuthi zikhule ngazo ubundlobongela basekhaya, kukho amacandelwana athetha ngomamkeli wobundlongondlongo nokuba ngubani obucaphukisayo. Ukongeza, kuxhomekeke ekuphatheni gadalala okusetyenzisiweyo, sinokuluhlela kwakhona.
Ubundlobongela emzimbeniUmenzi wobubi usebenzisa uloyiko nobundlongondlongo, ngendlela yokuba alikhubaze ixhoba lakhe aze abangele ukwenzakala komzimba, nokuba kungobethwa okanye izinto, zombini ezifumaneka kuloo ndawo okanye eziziswe ngokukodwa. Kwiimeko ezininzi zobundlobongela basekhaya, abazali ngabo abanoxanduva lokukhuthaza olu hlobo lokuxhatshazwa kwaye, nangona zincinci, iimeko ziye zaqwalaselwa apho kungowasetyhini obetha abantwana bakhe kunye nabayeni. Ezinye iingcali ziye zaqaqambisa ukuba ukuphathwa gadalala emzimbeni kunxulumene ngokungqongqo nokuxhatshazwa ngokweemvakalelo okanye ngokwasengqondweni.
Ubundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesondo: Kumatyala apho umenzi wobubi afuna ixhoba (ukulihlutha inkululeko yalo) ukuba libe neentlobano zesini okanye naluphi na unxibelelwano olunje, ngaphandle kwemvume yomnye umntu, kugqityiwe. Ngokubanzi, umhlaseli ujolise ukukhubekisa nokulawula omnye umntu, kwaye kolu luhlu sinokufumana ezi ndidi zilandelayo zobundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesondo:
- Umbulo, umzekelo, lolo hlobo lobudlelwane bezesondo apho abantu ababelana okanye behla egazini elinye bekhulelana ubudlelwane kunye nemvume yabo bobabini, nokuba yeyiphi na indlela eqondwe ngayo.
- Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondoKwenzeka xa umntu efuna omnye ukwanelisa iimfuno zakhe kwicandelo lezesondo, nokuba kungokuveza amalungu abo esini okanye ukuchukumisa imizimba yabo ngaphandle kwemvume yabo. Olu hlobo lokuxhatshazwa lunokwenzeka naphina, hayi ngaphakathi kosapho kuphela. Ukwaphula umthetho ngokwako kuyenziwa xa ixhoba lingafuni ukungena, nokuba kungumenzi wobubi, izinto okanye amalungu omzimba wakhe; nokuba kwilungu lobufazi, umngxuma okanye umlomo. Le nyani yenzeka kwindawo yoloyiko, ejolise ekuthinteleni ixhoba ekwenzeni isikhalazo esihambelanayo, ngakumbi ngakumbi ukuba lilungu losapho elingumxhaphazi.
Ubundlobongela ngokweemvakalelo: Njengoko igama layo lisitsho, iyazilimaza iimvakalelo; Oko kukuthi, ngokuthotywa, ukuthukwa, ukugrogriswa kunye / okanye izithintelo, umenzi wobubi ulimaza ilungu losapho. Oku kubangela ixhoba ukuba lingazithembi elibonakaliswa ngokuthe ngqo kukuzithemba, kokubini kwabo bazivelelayo, njengakubona olu hlobo lobundlobongela. Umhlukumezi ujonge ukuwaxhaphaza ngokweemvakalelo amaxhoba, efuna ukuzibonakalisa njengomkhuseli kwaye aqhubeke nokuqhubeka ngendlela enobundlobongela.
Ubundlobongela kwezoqoqoshoIsifundo sinokubangela ukungalingani kwixhoba, ukutyhola umvuzo omkhulu wemali okanye ukuthatha ithuba lelo meko, ukumisela isohlwayo okanye ukususa izinto eziphathekayo. Ikwajongwa njengobundlobongela kwezoqoqosho xa indoda ingafuni ukuba umfazi wayo asebenze okanye kungenjalo, ngaphandle kwemvume yakhe. Olu hlobo lobundlobongela, mhlawumbi, lubonakala ngakumbi kunokwasemzimbeni, kuba ezi zoyikiso, izithuko kunye nolwaphulo-mthetho lwenziwa ngasese nangasesidlangalaleni.
- Ubundlobongela babantwana, umzekelo, kukuphathwa gadalala rhoqo kwabantwana endlini kwaye ngaphakathi kuwo amaqela amabini anokubonwa:
- Inkqubo ye- ubundlobongela obusebenzayo Yenye apho umntwana axhatshazwa ngokwesondo, ngokwasemzimbeni okanye ngokwasemphefumlweni.
- Inkqubo ye- ubundlobongela Kwenzeka xa umntu eshiywe kwaye oku kunokuba kokubini ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo. Abantwana ababona ubundlobongela ekhaya bathathwa njengobundlobongela nje.
- Ubundlobongela emtshatweniImalunga nolo hlobo lobundlobongela obubangelwa kukuthandana. Ngaphakathi kuyo, sifumana ifayile ye- Ukuphathwa gadalala kwabasetyhini okanye ubundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesini, Okubandakanya ukuphathwa gadalala emzimbeni, kunye nokuphathwa gadalala ngokweemvakalelo, ngokwesondo okanye ngokwezoqoqosho. Inkqubo ye- ubundlobongela obunqamlezayo Imalunga nolo hlobo lobundlobongela oluqhutywa ngokudibeneyo kwaye lunokwenzeka ngokwasemzimbeni, ngokwasemphefumlweni, ngokwesondo okanye ngokwezezimali.
- Ukuphathwa gwenxa komntu.
- Ukuphathwa gadalala kwabantu abadala; Njengokuba abantu ababhinqileyo bejongwa njengabantu ababuthathaka ngokwesini, abantu abadala kunye nabantwana bathathwa njengelona xesha libuthathaka, kungoko ukuphathwa gadalala kwabantu abadala kusenokwenzeka kusapho.
Ngelishwa, kula maxesha, maninzi amatyala anxulumene nobundlobongela obujoliswe kwabasetyhini. Kukho noluntu kwihlabathi apho abantu basetyhini banyanzelwa ukuba batshate nendoda ebakhethileyo okanye, okubi ngakumbi, iyabathenga. Nangona kulisiko kwilizwe laseMpuma, kwilizwe laseNtshona olu luhlobo lobundlobongela ngokuchasene nesini sabasetyhini.
Inkqubo ye- ubundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesini ngokuchasene nabasetyhini ufumene ubukho obukhulu kwimithombo yeendaba, kunye nakwimpilo yemihla ngemihla yoluntu. Kwaye olu hlobo lobundlobongela lwenzeka kwabasetyhini kuba bathathwa njengababuthathaka.
Nokuba yeyiphi Uhlobo lwamatyala achazwe apha ngasentla obundlobongela, kufuneka kuxelwe, ukuze abo bakhuthaza le mpatho-mbi kunye nokuxhatshazwa ngokweemvakalelo babanjwe, kungekuphela nje ukuzikhusela, kodwa nokuba ngumzekelo ebusweni bexesha elizayo lobundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesini.
