Umxholo
Inkqubo ye- ukunyaniseka yi uhlobo lokuzinikela okanye ukunyaniseka komntu kwinjongo ethile, ezinokwahluka kakhulu: ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu (ubuhlobo, uthando, ukutshintshiselana), ilizwe okanye ilizwe, umbono, uluntu okanye inani labaphathi.
Akusekho mbono wekhonkrithi wokuba zeziphi iintlobo zezinto umntu anokunyaniseka kuzo, kodwa yi Ixabiso lixatyiswe kakhulu kwimiphakathi eyahlukeneyo yabantu, ezinxulunyaniswe nembeko, ukuzibophelela kwilizwi lakho, ukuthanda ubuzwe kunye nombulelo.
Ngaloo ndlela, Umntu unyanisekile xa ebuyisa oko akufumene ngomlinganiselo ofanelekileyo, xa engalahli umva kuluntu ahlala kulo, okanye xa ehlonipha uthando lwabo ngokuzinikela ngokulinganayo. Izimo zengqondo ezichaseneyo ngokufanelekileyo zinxulunyaniswa nokunganyaniseki, ukungcatsha okanye ukungabi nantlonelo.
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Umahluko phakathi kokunyaniseka nokunyaniseka
Ngelixa ezi ngcamango zimbini ziyafana kwaye zihlala ziphathwa ngokufanayo, azinjalo. Ngelixa ukuthembeka kubonisa ukuzinikela ngokupheleleyo emntwini, ngakumbi ngezizathu zothando, ukunyaniseka kwalatha kwinjongo okanye injongo ukuze ibe nkulu kunomntu.
Yintoni egqithisile, Ukunyaniseka kuthetha ukuba bodwa, ngelixa unokunyaniseka kubantu abohlukeneyo kunye nezizathu ezahlukeneyo. Unokwethembeka ngaphandle kokunyaniseka, kwaye unokunyaniseka ungathembekanga, uphikise njengokuba oko kungavakala.
Imizekelo yokunyaniseka
- Ukunyaniseka kwilizwe lokuzalwa. Abemi besizwe bafundiswe besebancinci ukuba bazive bebotshiwe kwaye benyanisekile kwilizwe laboUkuzibophelela okunokubakhokelela ekubeni banikele ngobomi babo kwiimfazwe okanye, ithiyori, kufuneka kubathintele ekunikezeleni amandla otshaba ngolwazi okanye ngezixhobo ezinokuba yingozi kwilizwe labo. Ugwetyelo, enyanisweni, lelinye lawona matyala makhulu kwiikhowudi zohlwayo kwaye ngamaxesha emfazwe lalidla ngokugwetyelwa ukufa.
- Ukunyaniseka kwesi sibini. Inqanaba lokuzibophelela elifunyenwe ekwenzeni ubudlelwane obuzinzileyo njengesibini sisekwe kwimigaqo enjengokuphindana kothando, ukuthembeka ngokwesondo (ngokwesiko) kunye nokunyaniseka. Okokugqibela kuthetha ukuba abantu abenza esi sibini bahlala benelungelo lenhlalakahle yomnye ngaphezulu kweyabo okanye ubuncinci beqela lesithathu..
- Ukunyaniseka kusapho. Lo mthetho-siseko wokuthobela kunye nothando losapho usebenze kakuhle kakhulu kwimifiyayali yase-Italiyane yenkulungwane yama-20, umzekelo, ikhowudi yokunyaniseka eyathetha ukuba ingaze yenzakalise amalungu osapho olunye. Ngumgaqo wobuzwe ukuzibophelela kukhuseleko lwabanye abantu ukwaphulwa kwabo kohlwaywa ngokucalulwa..
- Ukunyaniseka kuthixo. Olu hlobo lokunyaniseka alukhonkrithi kangako kwaye luchaziwe kunezinye, kuba kukuthobela nokuzinikela komntu ngamnye okanye kwenyambalala yabantu ngokubhekisele kwimigaqo ekhokelayo yohlobo oluthile lwenkolo, imiqathango yayo ekuthiwa iyalelwa nguThixo ngokwakhe . Ke, Ngengcinga yenkolo, ukuthobela imilinganiselo yokuziphatha yecawe yakho kukuthembeka kwiimfuno zoMdali kwiminqweno yakho okanye kwiimfuno zakho..
- Ukunyaniseka kuwe. Ukunyaniseka emntwini wakho yinto ebaluleke kakhulu kuxolo lwengqondo nangokweemvakalelo, kwaye kubandakanya ukuzibophelela kwinto enqwenelekayo ebomini kunye neenqobo zokuziphatha, njengomntu, ezinamathele kuzo, ngaphezulu kweemfuno zothando kunye izihlanganisi ezibambe ixesha. Olu hlobo lokunyaniseka kuye nabani na lithetha umda wokuqikelela, wokubambelela kwimigaqo yakhe kwaye, ngamafutshane, uhlala uzithanda ngaphezu kwayo yonke enye into..
- Ukunyaniseka kwishishini. Nangona ishishini lingayithobeli imiyalelo efanelekileyo, oko likwenza ngenxa yesimo esithile sokuziphatha, esahlula oosomashishini abathembekileyo kwabo bangathembekanga. Ukunyaniseka kwilizwi lomntu, umzekelo, okanye ukubuyisela impatho ekhethekileyo kuyo nayiphi na indlela, ziindlela zokunyaniseka ezixabiseke kakhulu kwilizwe lezorhwebo..
- Ukunyaniseka kubahlobo. Ukunyaniseka kubahlobo kubalulekile ekugcineni ubudlelwane obunobuhlobo. Abahlobo banamathela kwikhowudi engabonakaliyo yokuzibophezela ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ebathatha "ekhethekileyo" phakathi kwabo bonke abantu abaziwayo, oko kukuthi, banokuthenjwa. Ukungcatsha oko kuthenjwa ngokutyhila iimfihlelo, ukwenzakalisa okanye ngayo nayiphi na enye indlela, kuhlala kukhokelela ekuqhekekeni kobuhlobo kwaye kuhlala kuzele ubutshaba..
- Ukunyaniseka kwiqela. Kumalungu eqela lezopolitiko Bayacelwa ukuba bathembeke kwinjongo, oko kukuthi, ukukhusela nokulandela iinjongo zeqela kwaye bangamameli kulo lonke iqela lezopolitiko.. Oku kunyaniseka kungathathwa kugqithiso oluyingozi kulawulo lobuzwilakhe, apho iqela elinye lilawula kunye nokusola okukodwa kokungathembeki kunokuthwala isohlwayo esinzulu kulowo utyholwayo.
- Ukunyaniseka kwinkokeli ephezulu. Kulawulo oluzimeleyo, apho igunya linikezelwe yonke into kumntu omnye onqulwa ubuntu bakhe, Kuqhelekile ukubona iindlela zesohlwayo kunye nomvuzo osekwe kukunyaniseka kwinkokeli, oko kukuthi, ngokungathandabuzekiyo kugcinwa imiyalelo kunye noyilo. Oku kuyasebenza kumahlelo enkolo akhokelwa ngamandla yiguru okanye inkokheli yokomoya.
- Ukunyaniseka kwiinjongo. Imigaqo yokuziphatha, yezopolitiko kunye neyokuziphatha ekhokela ubomi bomntu kunye nokusebenza zihlala zingenakwaphulwa nangawuphi na umzuzu, nangona zinako (kwaye zihlala zenza) ukutshintsha ngokuhamba kwexesha okanye ukuziqhelanisa namava afunyenwe ngaphezulu kweminyaka. Nangona kunjalo, ukurhoxa kwezi njongo ukulungiselela ukusebenziseka lula kwezoqoqosho okanye ukutshintshiselana ngamandla kuhlala kubonwa njengesenzo sokungcatsha nokungathembeki kwiinjongo ezicingelwayo..
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